Do we love our pets more than our partners?


Oh Fido, will you be my Valentine?

FORGET going gooey-eyed over our other halves this ­Valentine’s Day – we save most of our love for our cats and dogs.

On the most romantic day of the year, a survey reveals that a third of pet owners are more affectionate to their furry friends than their human lovers.

On the most romantic day of the year, a survey reveals that a third of pet owners are more affectionate to their furry friends than their human lovers. 

And so devoted are we that an amazing 80 per cent would never date someone who didn’t like their pet – while 20 per cent admit they would rather have a pet than a relationship. 

The poll of 3,000 British dog and cat owners also showed that, faced with giving up their pet for the sake of love, 79 per cent would refuse to do it. 

Pets can even take the place of starting a family. 

Almost a third – 29 per cent – of people in a relationship prefer to have a pet than a child. 

As some people spend more time stroking their cats and dogs than having physical contact with their partner, this extreme bond can understandably cause the green-eyed ­monster to rise up – and 12 per cent blame it for putting a strain on their ­relationship. 

Cat owners seem to be more willing to put up with a frosty atmosphere between their moggy and a loved one – with 43 per cent happy to deal with someone who dislikes it. 

Overall, however, more than half of ­all the people surveyed claimed that owning a pet had strengthened their relationship. 

Steven Havers, an expert on relations between humans and dogs, pointed out: “The dynamic between people and their pets can be a complicated one. 

“Relationships with both the humans and the animals we share our lives with require a lot of time and attention.” 

It’s unlikely anyone will go so far as to buy a dozen red roses for Fido or Tiddles today – but perhaps it’s the least you can do for your loved one. 

Because humans need to feel appreciated, too. 

The survey was commissioned to mark the release of hit doggy film Marmaduke, is out now on DVD and Blu-ray Triple Play.


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Check out the BBC special on Valentine's Day.

Comments

Montse said…
Hi, Graham. I've read the article.
Graham said…
Hi Montse,

I am not surprised at the findings of the poll. I wonder if there would be similar findings in Spain.
Montse said…
Hi,Graham. I hope not and I prefer to think that, in Spain, we enjoy much more with the human company than animal, yet. I love animals but I think that everyone has to keep his place in the life and a pet doesn’t replace to a person.
Graham said…
Montse:

I am sure you are right. I doubt many Spanish people would understand the findings of the poll.

I get the impression that pets in Spain aren't an integral part of the family as they are in the UK.

we STILL ENJOY HUMAN COMPANY much more than THE COMPANY OF ANIMALS. I love animals but I think that everyone has to keep THEIR place in LIFE and a pet doesn’t REPLACE A person.

enjoy + object